I heard from Boston Guy this morning after sending yet another text. He said he was away yesterday and and forgot his phone. I completely believe him but am not thrilled that when he received my texts and message this morning he still chose not to respond. All of this seems to be just a bad coincidence with the email that I sent him, which I do not even think he has read yet. We still need to discuss the email that I sent him but I am hoping that he will be open to improving communication and all will be okay.
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I hope things work themselves out…
Eliot…I consider you a friend so please know that I’ve been silent for too long over this Boston Guy…I haven’t said much about him, cuz I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but I have to speak up now.
I don’t think he wants what you want, relationship wise. His lack of communication worries me. Please Eliot, you need to separate yourself from this guy & move on. You are spending way too much time waiting for the next excuse from this guy, and honestly, you shouldn’t have to. His “reasons” are so transparent & frankly, weak…trust me, Little Pumpkin, I speak from experience (I’m ancient remember?)…I know this guy, and he’s just too afraid to tell you the truth about his feelings for you, so he avoids you.
You’re A GREAT GUY Eliot…and there’s someone out there for you…I HATE to see you get hurt. I’m so sorry…please remember that I’m saying this to you as a friend & I’m not trying to hurt you.
::hugs::
Elliot, I totally agree with Christopeher (Nice to meet you Christopher). You’re at such an exciting moment in your life I think maybe you should look for someone at least emotionally closer to what you want (and ideally geopgraphically closer).
But love is crazy…….
Lack of communication = move on. This guy does not deserve your energy. I know from experience that you can want something so bad that you will deal with almost anything, but if the other person cannot respond appropriately, it bodes ill for the future.