One Year

One year ago today I told my wife I was gay and began this blog. What a year it has been! Over 61,000 blog views, over 1,000 comments and 148 posts. I know that I made the right decision to come out to my wife and us splitting up was also the right decision for [...]

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First Pride. Bleh.

Bell Guy and I planned Saturday to go to Baltimore to meet some of his friends and take in the Gay Pride Parade. My first Gay Pride event in my young tenure as an old gay guy. We made it up there in the early afternoon and met a friend for lunch. I didn’t eat [...]

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Gossip Gone

Many months ago I wrote about Gossip, a trusted manager and “friend” that questioned my sexuality with another manager at work. Over the last few months, I have tried to work from home more and let the management of that office run that office without me being involved day to day. Anyways, Gossip began to [...]

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Vegas Part I

Finally a little about my trip to Vegas a couple weeks ago… The purpose of the trip was for a convention but I went out early with some coworkers that had never been to Vegas. I’d share pics we took but coworker has yet to send them to me so the ones below I lifted [...]

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Dilemma

When we (me and two coworkers) checked into the hotel, I very stupidly asked if we could have rooms near one another. Now, this hotel has over 5,000 rooms so maybe that was a good idea at the time but I did not think it through. When the front desk girl told me that she [...]

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A Kiss

Back to catching up on Bell Guy… A couple weeks ago I had to attend an afternoon office Christmas party downtown. I decided that I would park at Bell Guy’s apartment and take the subway down. Bell Guy worked from home that day so after visiting with him for a few minutes, we walked to [...]

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Vegas Trip Report

The trip to Vegas was fast and fun! The first night we met another manager for dinner at Maggiano’s. That is my favorite Italian restaurant. The spaghetti sauce there reminds me of my grandmother’s. The next day we were off to the convention expo in an attempt to recruit vendors to pay and attend our [...]

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Vegas Baby!

I am in Las Vegas for a quick conference. I arrived tonight (my god I forgot how long that flight is from the East Coast) and fly back Saturday. Ironically, I’m here with Gossip. Although I do not always agree with her methods, we generally have fun together. I’m not much of a gambler but [...]

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Gossip Mongers II

I swear some days I think I am paid simply to babysit. The people that report to me are generally twice my age yet they act like they are in kindergarten. The manager (known here as “Gossip”) that found it fun to gossip about my sexuality got into it with another manager today (“Hard Head”). [...]

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Out to an Old Friend

I was chatting with a friend that I’ve known for fifteen years last night. He works at my company and has been really busy on a large project the last six months. We haven’t seen each other much since the project began. He asked how things were going, and I was debating whether to tell [...]

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