One Year

One year ago today I told my wife I was gay and began this blog. What a year it has been! Over 61,000 blog views, over 1,000 comments and 148 posts. I know that I made the right decision to come out to my wife and us splitting up was also the right decision for [...]

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Settling In. Sort of.

Bell Guy is beginning to settle in and I am beginning to get used to my new reality. I get really super sad late at night when I think about what was but I know that will fade with time. I have not been sleeping well at all the last few nights but that should [...]

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They are all gone.

I’m back from vacation and returning to a semi empty house was weird. No wife and no dogs. All of their stuff is gone too. It made me pretty sad but I am looking forward to Bell Guy moving in tomorrow. Saying goodbye to her a couple weeks ago was tough. Saying goodbye to the [...]

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Wife Found a Job and a Place to Live

My wife has been in Florida since Saturday at a job fair and looking for a place to live. The trip was a success for her, as she called me today and she signed a contract for the job at the location that she was hoping for and also found an apartment. So, it looks [...]

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Busy Weekend

Bell Guy and I had a busy weekend. Friday I got to his apartment and we went and had a quick early dinner so we could get home in time to watch the first Caps’ first playoff game. They won. Yay! Saturday, I somehow convinced Bell Guy to buy a new TV. He got a [...]

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Dilemma

When we (me and two coworkers) checked into the hotel, I very stupidly asked if we could have rooms near one another. Now, this hotel has over 5,000 rooms so maybe that was a good idea at the time but I did not think it through. When the front desk girl told me that she [...]

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Divorce and Real Estate

I haven’t blogged about the circumstances involved in my pending divorce in some time (or ever maybe?). Here’s one component. My wife and I have been debating for some time what to do with the investment property we own. I am an executive in a large real estate company so I have some experience in [...]

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Boston and Bell Update

A few updates: – I have not heard a word from Boston Guy since sending him the message the other night. He is done with school so I have little doubt that he has read it. I said hi to him on aim tonight and he chose not to reply. I hope I have not [...]

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One Month

I just realized that it has been exactly one month since I came out to my wife and began this blog. I have no regrets. A huge weight has been lifted off of me. I can finally be truthful to myself and to her. God knows I’ve slept better the last month than I have [...]

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Trip Booked (Again)

Quick update on Boston Guy. We are on for this Saturday. Yesterday, I went back to the airport and changed the ticket. (Have you ever been to a major international airport in the evening? Seriously, it’s like the United Nations because of all the outbound international flights. People not knowing where they are going, unable [...]

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